In his forty-third year William Stoner learned what others, much younger, had learned before him: that the person one loves at first is not the person one loves at last, and that love is not an end but a process through which one person attempts to know another.

John Williams
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The quote is about the process of love. The point is that the person you fall in love with at first, may not be the person you will end up loving in the end. Love, for many people, is something easy to fall into. However, when you are in love, it is much more difficult to get out of it. It’s hard to let go of someone who has become so dear to your heart.

Source: Stoner

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